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Have you or people in your community been harassed, threatened, or attacked since the pandemic began, either in person or online? If so, what happened?

I have a partner who I love very much and we don't live very close to each other, he came to my house a few months back. We love going out to places, such as going to restaurants and places together to enjoy each other when we do get to be together. This particular night we decided to go to another restaurant but he changed his mind and wanted to stay home. We compromised and we decided to get food from the restaurant but just pick it up. We arrived there and waited for quite a long time, as we were waiting we were watching people going in and out of the restaurant. We debated leaving even because it was taking too long, but we decided to wait for a little bit longer as we were very hungry. We heard commotion and somebody shouting at the front entrance and we looked over and saw a woman yelling on her phone. She seemed very upset and was yelling at somebody on the phone and she was telling him to come inside the restaurant. A few minutes later the man she was yelling at through the phone arrived. He was very angry and reluctant to go inside of the restaurant at all. I assume his wife was convincing him to go into the restaurant but he was yelling very loudly and refusing. He was very upset because the restaurant would not let him in without a mask, and he did not want to wear a mask for whatever reason. He was almost to the point of belligerent and it was very scary so much so that me and my partner rolled up the windows because he was getting violent. We were fearing the worst as he yelled and screamed at his wife and workers there. I didn't realize it then but after the man left in a huff my partner told me that the man had yelled at my partner to take off his mask. I'm not quite sure why the man was so upset at him. I speculate that he was just trying to blame others and attack others because he was angry. I got very upset after my partner told me what he had actually done because I wasn't aware at the moment. I also assume that he was mad at my partner because he had a mask on even though he was in a car. The reason he had a mask on was because the worker was going to come out and give us our food. That is still interaction with people and he is very strict about wearing a mask around other people to be safe. This was one story about violence from a complete stranger, because neither him nor I knew him. It was unjust and very scary to say the least, I don't know why people think that is okay. I mean even if you don't personally want to wear a mask, don't push your views on other people, I don't yell at you to put on a mask even though I feel that you should wear one.